faraji13

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Pursuit of Hapiness
So if you’ve wondered why I haven’t been blogging, it’s for two simple reasons.
1. I’m looking for a job and doing some consulting gigs, so time is kind of at a premium here. I do love chopping it up with y’all, but unfortunately, until them ads for “Meet big-breasted women” and “Don’t pay for Teeth [...]
Racialicious pt. II “I like a long haired Thick Redbone”
So I admit, I just posted the picture up there because I kinda like it. But think about it. If Amber Rose looked like this, would anyone be talking about her?

I was having an interesting convo with the homey on twitter the other day about relationship issues, and it somehow veered into the fact that [...]
Manlaw Vol. II: Macking
So in this continuation of the Manlaw series, I want to talk to folks about actually meeting women. A simple activity which has become tremendously overcomplicated by both men and women. I was talking to a friend of mine and she’s been bugging me about writing something regarding the proper etiquette in meeting a woman [...]
Marriage or Manwhoring
So I asked a question on Twitter the other day and I was really surprised by the answers I got.  And I think it’s a question many men my age (Late 20’s, early 30’s) are asking themselves right about now. It’s simple: Two or three more years of hardcore manwhoring or start looking for a [...]
I appreciate you, woman
So, in the spirit of making the weekly hell that is Monday a little more bearable, and taking a little of the edge off what people are chronically doing wrong in dating, why they’re miserable and alone, and how they’re so intolerable that no one would want to be with them, I’ve decided it’s time [...]
Grade Inflation
Morning, folks. If you want to know why I’ve been so inconsistent lately, it’s because I finished up my thesis last week, and now am moving, so I’ve been flipping between Boston, DC, and NYC. Also, I’m now a Master of Science, so I’m prepared to lord my education over everyone now. I’m going to [...]
And now the bad: Glenn Beck is extremely dangerous
I imagine you’ve either seen or heard of the video of Glenn beck calling President Obama a racist. I’m all about free speech. He has a right to say whatever he wants. What he is saying, however, is a plea to white racial victimization, which is a fear tactic that has historically been used by [...]
Jump-offs, Gumads, Bust Downs & Marriage
Mayne. What a month for the other woman, huh? First John Ensign out in Nevada decides he’s going to get it in with a campaign staffer. Then your boy Mark Sanford decides he’s going to go AWOL from the state he runs for days to get up with his foreign trim. And then it really [...]
So long, my friend
I’d remember you as you were and how you always wanted to be: Great

Travel well, friend.
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Seriously, Fab? In this Economy?
It’s this kind of monkey shit that keeps black folks on the bottom of the economic totem pole. Seriously, the worst recession since the Great Depression, and you’re rapping about buying tacky bags and jewelry while some stereotypical light skinned video chick steals stuff? WHEN WILL YOU PEOPLE GET IT? And don’t get me wrong, [...]
Delusions of Grandeur
As some of you may know, I’ve been on an anti-swagger campaign pretty much since it got popular. Now that old spice ha a deodorant named Swagger, I think we can safely agree that swagger is the current version of “Whoomp, There It Is.”
Yes, the term is overplayed, but more importantly, so’s the concept. I’ll [...]
Preview: “Socialite” ladies: Worthless or not?
So I’ve heard more and more black women of our generation refer to themselves in some capacity or other as “socialites.” What I take that to mean is ladies who have a full social calendar of events, fundraisers, and parties to go to, in an attempt to be socially meaningful. Kind of Gossip Girl meets [...]
A Video Birthday Celebration
So today is my 31st Birthday. Itactually view the 31st birthday as bigger than the 30th. 30 is kind of like an outpost of your 20’s. An overtime, if you will. But when you hit 31, you’re IN your 30’s. Like when people write about me in the Financial Times, the Wall Street Journal, or [...]
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