more about "Madonna & Britney Spears Kabbalah Wor...", posted with vodpod    EXCLUSIVE: Madonna offers Guy an extra £5million 'if she can dictate access rights to children' By Richard SimpsonLast updated at 8:54 AM on 23rd October 2008Madonna has offered Guy Ritchie an additional £5million to dictate his access rights to their three children.The singer has agreed to increase the lump sum cash payment he will get in their divorce from £15million to £20million if he backs down from a court battle over Lourdes, 12, Rocco, eight, and David Banda, three.Legal sources said last night that Mr Ritchie would be well-advised to take the offer since Madonna as their mother would be seen as primary carer.'Madonna has said to Guy that if she ups the money, then would he agree to her setting out the access for the children until they turn 18. What she is basically saying is that if Guy wants this to go to court, she will get what she wants anyway.'Basically she is offering a cash incentive to him to encourage an amicable out-of-court agreement over the children.. Madonna is keen to give Guy good access to the children - but on her terms,' a source said.'Guy wants the children to be educated in Britain - especially his beloved Rocco - but his lawyers will be advising him that if Madonna moves to New York and wants the children with her, a judge is likely to agree.'Ritchie spent yesterday mulling over the offer with his lawyers.The offer also contains a clause which will effectively attempt to gag Ritchie and his family from talking about the marriage break-down.Access to the children is the only area of the split Guy and Madonna are now at loggerheads over.Money and property have been discussed and all but agreed.The Mail has learned that Guy finally decided the marriage was over during one particular bizarre exchange with his wife at their Marylebone house where she claimed to be 'bigger than Jesus'.Said a friend: ''The argument happened at the Marylebone house. Madonna had been moaning about his lack of suppo